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Looking for Something Better Than Flowers?

Flowers are beautiful. They're also dead in a week. What if you could give something just as thoughtful — but that lasts 30 days?

Flowers Are Lovely. But Let’s Be Honest…

Nobody's saying flowers are a bad gift. They look gorgeous on the kitchen table, and they smell fantastic for about four days. But as a personalised, meaningful gesture? They fall a bit short.

You want to give something that says more than “I stopped at the petrol station.” Something that actually feels like you.

What If Your Gift Lasted 30 Days?

Jar of Us is a personalised card deck — 30 cards filled with your real memories, inside jokes, love notes, and interactive dare cards. You build it in 10 minutes using AI, edit every card yourself, and choose how to deliver it.

It’s the kind of gift that makes someone cry on card three and laugh on card seven. Flowers can’t do that.

Flowers vs Jar of Us — Side by Side

Feature Flowers Jar of Us
Lasts 3–7 days 30 days
Personal Low — pick colours, add a card Completely — built from your memories
Price £30–50 for a decent bouquet From £9
Effort 5 mins at checkout 10 mins of real thought
Daily surprise No Yes — one card per day
Emotional impact Nice, then forgotten Genuinely moving

How It Works

Answer questions about your relationship

Tell us how you met, your inside jokes, favourite memories, and what makes them special. Takes about 5 minutes.

AI creates 30 cards from your memories

Our AI turns your answers into 30 beautifully written, personalised cards — love notes, memories, dares, and surprises.

Edit everything, then choose digital or printed

Tweak any card until it’s perfect. Then pick: Daily Gift (£9), Digital PDF (£9.99), or Printed deck (£29, free UK delivery).

What Jar of Us Customers Say

★★★★★
He opens one every morning with his coffee and texts me about it. Way better than another bouquet that dies on the windowsill.
Sophie T.
Gift for my boyfriend
★★★★★
The gift box arrived beautifully wrapped with a wax seal. She said it was the most thoughtful thing anyone’s ever given her.
Chloe A.
Gift for my mum

Frequently Asked Questions

Are flowers a bad gift?
Not at all. Flowers are a lovely gesture. But if you want something that lasts beyond the week and feels genuinely personal, a Jar of Us card deck gives them 30 days of daily surprises filled with your real memories and inside jokes.
How much does Jar of Us cost?
From £9 for the Daily Gift (30 cards delivered to their phone, one per day), £9.99 for a Digital PDF deck, or £29 for premium printed cards with free UK delivery.
How long does it take to make?
About 10 minutes. You answer a few questions about your relationship, AI generates 30 personalised cards from your real memories, and you can edit every single one before sending.
Can I still send flowers too?
Of course! Jar of Us works beautifully alongside flowers. Send the bouquet for the initial wow factor, then surprise them with a card deck that keeps giving for 30 days after the petals are gone.

Give Something That Lasts

See your personalised cards before you pay. It takes 10 minutes.

Build Your Deck — Free
From £9